Lovers sometimes have trouble making life decisions. They are swayed by passion, deep emotion and logic, each of which can battle the others. Passion can masquerade as emotion. Emotion can step on logic’s toes. But the Lovers card tells us to hold on to our horses. Hold back on all decisions until your mind is clear. If it is real, lover-boy, or -girl will wait for you to decide. And, you both will be a whole lot happier knowing your decisions were made on solid ground. “Learn to wish that everything should come to pass exactly as it does.” Epictetus